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Does My Husband Still Love Me? How to Tell What He Feels For You
Author: Gillian Reynolds
Does my husband still love me is one of those questions many married women ask themselves at some point. Marriages, like all relationships, change over time and even though you may have once felt very confident in your husband's love for you that security can shift. It's not uncommon for a woman to feel confused about what her spouse is feeling and thinking. There are ways to know without him telling you though. If you understand the signs of a husband falling out of love, you can quickly determine whether your marriage is heading towards trouble.
One easy way to find an answer to the question does my husband still love me is his commitment to spending time with you. Many men who are falling out of love with their wives have trouble expressing it verbally so instead they simply distance themselves emotionally from the situation. If your husband is making up frequent excuses for why he isn't at home or why you two can't do things together as a couple anymore, something isn't right.
His attitude towards you including how patient he is can be another indicator of what your husband is feeling for you. If he seems short tempered most of the time and he's unwilling to compromise when you two are having a disagreement, there may be more to it than his simply being moody. Often, when a person is feeling disconnected from their partner they'll express it by being difficult, confrontational and irritating.
Another answer to the question does my husband still love me can be found in his willingness to lend a hand. A man in love wants nothing more than to do whatever he can for the woman in his life. Early on in your marriage your husband likely went out of his way to help you with even the most mundane tasks. If that's changed now and you have to constantly badger him to do just about anything, his feelings have likely changed for you. You're not on the top of his priority list anymore.
Does my ex husband still love me? Please Help! I just need opinions!?
He makes it a point to see me if he is going on vacation.
He calls me or texts me a lot and gets upset if he hasn’t talked to me n a while.
He says he miss’s my sex and how perfect i am.
He asks me what i miss about him and i’ll say everything i can think of except for saying him or us but he says all my other answers arn’t good enough.
He gives me a different excuse of why he broke up with me almost every time we talk about it.
He brings up how things may be different if we were still together.
He says im trying to make him feel guilty when i talk about the break up.
He gets mad when his mom doesn’t want me to see him.
He gets hard if he talks to me, if i walk into a room, or i message him.
He still gets upset when i mention other guys.
on the other hand…
He brings up that we still need to get a divorce but he NEVER goes through with it or even calls the date we have set up.
He is friends with people that used to talk really bad about him who used to be my best friends.
He tells me not to tell any one that we hang out.
so does he still love me?
still IN love with me?
wanna be with me?
just stringing me along?
or
Is still in love with me and wants to be with me just not no how to go about it?
Please answer truthfully just give me your opioion i really need help cause i can’t tell and its really hard for me to move on when i still have the thought that he may want me back on day….
We have a 3 year old daughter and used to live with each other. He broke up with me because i wouldnt cook and clean all the time, and because i wanted are daughter when i got pregnant and he wanted to wait, and because if he ordered me to get him something i wouldn’t do it all the time, and because i didn’t want to sit on the couch with are daughter in the basment all day long and watch him play his stupid video games. He had a girlfriend which he just broke up with her when my sister in law told him that she thought i was and always was going to be the best thing that he had ever lost and was still doing all of these things when he was with her. I don’t talk to him or call him for anything except to make arrangements for our daughter. I still see him once in a while because my sister in law is a big part of my life. when we first started dating he was a complete straight edge and didn’t do anything wrong and now since we broke up he got really really depressed and then started drinki
FOR GOD SAKES…your a booty call! doesn’t want anyone to know you hang out, misses your sex, upset when you mention other guys, still needs to get a divorce, different excuse to why we broke up… BOOTY CALL! sorry if it walks like a duck, it’s a fricken duck. I am not saying he doesn’t care about you, I am saying all he wants is a booty call until something different comes around!
been there done that!
My ex husband is engaged, but I want him to come back, what should I do?
I love my ex husband so much, but it is killing me that he is moving on. He told me he wanted to come back home several times, and because of certain very serious things, I had seen that were not changed, I told him, no. The one time, that I said, yes, and he was going to come home that day, something happened with the law that was not under my control that he could not. I have our three kids, and I am really upset. I really love him, but it just seems that he is chasing after money. I wanted us to get back together, but at the advisement of the courts, he was not able to see the kids for a while until he was released from an allegation, if I did my kids would be taken away. Once he was released from the allegation , I was happy, because I said he can finally come home. Then, I find out that during the waiting period he hooked up with another woman, because he said he was lonely, and a man has needs. I am so angry, at him. The problem for me is that this is not a girlfriend, he plans to marry this chick who he only knew for three months and he was engaged to. I am mad because, I am raising a special needs child, and two other children. Im angry, because why do I feel like such a loser, for making a choice that would have cost me my kids. I thought by following the law, that this would be for the good of all of us, me, the kids, and him? He started talking to the kids again, but told me, because I did not override the law, that he could not stay with me. I keep beating myself up for this, because I really love him. Also, because meeting people is not so easy when you are the only one raising your three children. I wish there was something, I could do to get him, to come home, and help raise our kids together. This is so painful. He will be married, in less that a month. For a while, he was still calling me, and asking me out, even after being engaged, but now he has stopped talking to me. I never responded to his offers, because I knew he was engaged, but I hurt, because I still love him, and want us to be together. I dont want to get with him, because I manipulated the situation. I want it to be because he really does want to and it does not look like I was trying to get him back. I want him to come back to me freely, not with persuasion. What should I do?
What you should do is leave him alone. That’s what. But it’s not what you want to hear but it’s the truth.
As you yourself said you shouldn’t manipulate this because he needs to WANT to come back but he doesn’t. If he did he wouldn’t be marrying another person.
So leave him alone.
Does my husband still love his ex-wife?
I met my husband maybe a year or so after his nasty divorce with his ex. I’ve never really hated her before we were married but I was concerned about their relationship. When I met him he was still living in their old house. I would come over and sometimes she would be there hanging out (his brother and wife were living there temporarily) and chatting. I hated this because I didn’t believe in it. I feel that there should be a distance between ex’s. We were married awhile after and I made it a point to be nice for the sake of his kids with her, but we had an altercation in where she called me a stupid b**** on the phone(when I got smart with her about something). From that point on I told him I didn’t want her in my house and never to call my phone. I also made it clear to him that I didn’t want her in my life, and that I didn’t want her to see our new son. I found out recently that he emailed a pic of him to her. I couldn’t sleep the entire night. I felt betrayed and hurt. He claims that he doesn’t understand why I feel this way. He is friends with her, jokes with her on the phone, and helps her out sometime. I hate when they talk on the phone so much now that I leave the room. I hate when he has to do anything in regards to her. She is a drama queen. She is so messed up that she doesn’t understand why I hate her. He tells me that he does not want her, and I believe him. I just want him to say no to her and stop being a friend to her. Am I wrong to feel this way? It’s hurting my heart and I don’t feel this will last if he doesn’t see it my way. We haven’t been married a year. PLEASE HELP!
this relationship that your husband has with his ex is way too weird and something needs to be done. look, as he has kids with her, you can’t expect him to cut her off. that won’t work and you knew this going in. however, the constant phone calls (not about the kids) and everything else are a major red flag here. his ex wife shouldn’t be his “drinking buddy”.
for now, i think that you need to take him to counseling. forget about battling the ex. this plays right into her hands and truthfully she isn’t the problem, your husband is. if he can’t pull back from the ex, then he should still be with her. it’s time to put your foot down here.
Does my husband still love ex wife or am I paranoid?
I met my husband 4 years ago we had a on and off relationship before we got married. When I met him he was going through a divorce with ex. They have a real weird relationship they hate eachother then they are friends and then they sleep together(he cheated on his ex girlfriend with her…but supposedly has never cheated on me with her). Even now with us being married he does things that I feel still show a bond with her. He has referred to her and him as a couple when he was in court for a custody battle, he is a musician and sings a lot but after we discuss something regarding her he starts singing love songs about break ups, he refers to her as mama to his daughter never your mom or your mama, she used to e-mail him jokes about sex and he thinks she is funny. I don’t know if I’m being insecure because of their past, but it seems he isn’t over her so why did he marry me? It’s hard for me to have a solid relationship with my husband when I look at him I just think that I ams econd choice to him……I don’t know what to think or how to feel about this.
I wish I could give you a simple answer. He will be tied to his ex the rest of his life, because he and his ex share a child. It is important for the child to have a positive relationship with the mom. You married into an entangled family web. Don’t feel alone on this count. Many of us, on our second marriage, marry into a complex family web.
I suggest that you address this soon, or your feelings, whether justified or not, will ruin your marriage. I believe that you and your husband would benefit from professional help. I suggest professional help because I cannot predict without additional information how your husband would react or treat you if you addressed him directly. He might laugh it off, he might get mad, he might do things that might not help resolve the problem. The same would be true for you.
Although I believe you will need to speak to him directly about this, I feel that the conversation should take place in couples counseling..
Any other suggestions will only be filled with guessing and conjectures.
Good luck
Does my husband still love his ex?
They knw each other for 20yrs, they have a 13yr old son.But was seperated since he was born.They know everythng abt each other.Whn she and new hsband moved to another country he followed, the reason that he wants to be with his son.He says he doenst love her anymre.When she has problems with her husband she runs to him & cries on his shouldr when he is sad he shows his emotions to her rather than me.When I made ugly remrks about her he got very cross & defended her.His parents love her & can’t stop comenting how great she is.His son is a bit of a spoiled brat and play them so well.My husband can’t stand her husband. And he said to his son the other day that he cant believe they got over the way her husband treated her a couple of moths ago because he has not forgotten and he never will. it hurts me bc he seems to trust her more than me.Whn he was w her he gave her free reign ovr his money, me he has on a very tight leash concern money.Does he still love her, shld I go now after 4yr
Ps. The way he talks to me and the way he talks to her is worlds appart.He treats her for a bit more respect and doens’t make her feel stupid me he sorta do. He treats his son wth more respect thn me and also sorta place him on a higher “rank” thn me..is that normal?
Well he loves his son and he really care. He care for her and listen because of his son not because he still loves her.
He’s with you because he loves you if not he probably gone with his X and son.
Show him that you also care and understand about his past, don’t be selfish.Past is Past.